This weekend, as we took a break from the activities at the Taking Care of Your Diabetes expo in Des Moines, I told my friend Marie that every day I strive to do something good for someone, big or small. It comes from the example my parents gave me. That is probably the main reason why I decided to become a diabetes patient advocate, and try to learn as much as I can about how to understand every single person affected by this condition. I don’t do it for recognition; at the end of the day I prefer my name NOT to be mentioned anywhere… I just do it because I care.
One of the things about diabetes (and any other kind of disease) is that when you meet someone who is also dealing with it, it feels like you just added insta-friend powder. The most awesome moment of my weekend came after I shared a lunch table with my friends, and then a lady we didn’t know asked if she could join us. We talked about diabetes, shared what type we had… you know, the usual. And then we mentioned DSMA, of course (Scott Johnson and Mike Durbin were at the social media booth telling people about what diabetes advocates do). When we finished lunch, the lady got up to leave and I gave her my website business card and a Diabetes Advocates brochure I happened to have with me. Her eyes watered up and she asked me if she could give me a hug. She was grateful to hear us say that she’s not alone, that there are people out there who will listen to her and she can count on. And that, my friends, is what makes me so proud to be part of the DOC. Because no matter what I do, I can do a good deed every single day.
This was my first year at TCOYD, and I have to be honest and say that my main reason to go was to hang out with the fantastic people I’ve met in the diabetes online community. But it’s not because I want to hang out… it’s because I love to see them in action. People involved in the You Can Do This Project, inspiring patients to support each other via words of encouragement. Projects like Diabetes Art Day where we learn to express what we can’t with words via art. People like Mike and Marie who took the time to help a very funny old lady when she wanted to check her blood sugar and didn’t know how to. That is what moves me, that is what makes me see my friends as superheroes, people who give big part of their lives without asking for anything in return… or maybe just a hug, like the one I got.